A little bit more on the meaning of Beloved… و ما معنى العزيز ؟

al-Aziz in Arabic stands for the Beloved, which also comes from and means strength, intensity, success, greatness, and to refrain. And it also comes from reinforcement which means to strengthen. And the Beloved comes from the Divine and so it is one of the names of God in Islam. And it is very rare to find, and the need for it only exceeds, and it is not so easy to reach to and feel connected to; and those three combined is what “Beloved” means. To take for example the Sun, there is nothing to be compared to the sun, the benefits of the sun is remarkable, and the need for the sun is severe, but it can not described as the Beloved, for it is not so hard to find. “From the 99 names of God in Islam”

العزيز: العز فى اللغة هو القوة والشدة والغلبة والرفعة و الأمتناع ، والتعزيز هو التقوية ، والعزيز اسم من أسماء الله الحسنى هو الخطير ،( الذى يقل وجود مثله . وتشتد الحاجة اليه . ويصعب الوصول اليه ) وإذا لم تجتمع هذه المعانى الثلاث لم يطلق عليه اسم العزيز ، كالشمس : لا نظير لها .. والنفع منها عظيم والحاجة شديدة اليها ولكن لا توصف بالعزة لأنه لا يصعب الوصول الي مشاهدتها . وفى قوله تعالى ( ولله العزة ولرسوله وللمؤمنين ولكن المنافقين لا يعلمون ) فالعزة هنا لله تحقيقا ، ولرسوله فضلا ، وللمؤمنين ببركة إيمانهم برسول الله عليه الصلاة والسلام

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A little bit more on what it means to be Governed… معنى المهيمن من اسماء الله

To be Governed: And it stands for doing what needs to be done, and taking good care of it. And the Governor watches over you, and takes care of you. To Govern is derived from the Divine who is always watching over and taking care of everything. Excessive care and protection. witness to the world in all that is happening, intimately and in secrecy. The Governor comes from the Divine for listening to all thankfulness and to all complaints. Keeps you motivated even when you are hurt and in trouble. Who is over looking all your doings, actions and decisions, witnessing your thoughts, and knows of your secrets, so you are never alone. Even the greatness and the extraordinary are seen and known, and all actions are being supervised and taken care of. Always there, by keeping it protected and governed. -“From the 99 names of God in Islam”, and if you feel governed then it is a feeling derived from the Divine.
المهيمن: الهيمنة هى القيام على الشىء والرعاية له ، والمهيمن هو الرقيب أو الشاهد ، والرقيب اسم من أسماء الله تبارك وتعالى معناه الرقيب الحافظ لكل شىء ، المبالغ فى الرقابة والحفظ ، أو المشاهد العالم بجميع الأشياء ، بالسر والنجوى ، السامع للشكر والشكوى ، الدافع للضر والبلوى ، وهو الشاهد المطلع على افعال مخلوقاته ، الذى يشهد الخواطر ، ويعلم السرائر ، ويبصر الظواهر ، وهو المشرف على أعمال العباد ، القائم على الوجود بالحفظ والأستيلاء
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A little bit on Faith… معنى المؤمن من اسامي الله الحسنى

Faith: To have faith means to be certain. And to have faith, is to be protected and feel at ease when you feel fear. And you gain Faith when you are a believer seeking for it. And Faith comes from the Divine, since believing is knowing the existence of something more powerful than our being. Faith is to feel protected even when threatened, it is to feel tranquil in your heart in whatever situation you are in. And feeling both fear and Faith are both feelings of instincts that are a source of connection with the Divine. It is a feeling for a reason, a reason to differentiate situations. “From the 99 names of God in Islam”

المؤمن: الإيمان فى اللغة هو التصديق ، ويقال آمنه من الأمان ضد الخوف ، والله يعطى الأمان لمن استجار به واستعان ، الله المؤمن الذى وحد نفسه بقوله ( شهد الله أنه لا اله إلا هو ) ، وهو الذى يؤمن أولياءه من عذابه ، ويؤمن عباده من ظلمه ، هو خالق الطمأنينة فى القلوب ، أن الله خالق أسباب الخوف وأسباب الأمان جميعا وكونه تعالى مخوفا لا يمنع كونه مؤمنا ، كما أن كونه مذلا لا يمنع كونه معزا ، فكذلك هو المؤمن المخوف ، إن إسم ( المؤمن ) قد جاء منسوبا الى الله تبارك وتعالى فى القرآن مرة واحدة فى سورة الحشر فى قوله تعالى ( هو الله الذى لا اله إلا هو الملك القدوس السلام المؤمن المهيمن العزيز الجبار المتكبر سبحان الله عما يشركون ) سورة الحش


An old house occupied by Israeli in Yafa Yafo Jaffa

When trying over and over again and failing, when feeling down and unfit in this world. Remember it is time to read this Blog Post.

Early this morning, I woke up to one great read on the Wake Up World online community. The article speaks about creativity and I felt it is an article both worth sharing and remembering for I agree with it and find it very motivational.

Here are my footnotes and favorite parts that I wish to carry along with me from the full article by Michael Michalko

“You are creative. Every one of us is born a creative, spontaneous thinker. This is why people who believe they are creative become creative. All creative geniuses work passionately hard and produce incredible numbers of ideas, most of which are bad. In fact, more bad poems were written by the major poets than by minor poets. Shakespeare wrote 154 sonnets. Some were masterpieces, while others were no better than his contemporaries could have written, and some were simply bad. When you go through the motions of trying to come up with new ideas, you are energizing your brain by increasing the number of contacts between neurons. The more times you try to get ideas, the more active your brain becomes and the more creative you become. You can synthesize experience; literally create it in your own imagination. The human brain cannot tell the difference between an “actual” experience and an experience imagined vividly and in detail. This discovery is what enabled Albert Einstein to create his thought experiments with imaginary scenarios that led to his revolutionary ideas about space and time. One day, for example, he imagined falling in love. Then he imagined meeting the woman he fell in love with two weeks after he fell in love. This led to his theory of acausality. The only certainty in life is uncertainty. When trying to get ideas,  do not censor or evaluate them as they occur. Nothing kills creativity faster than self-censorship of ideas while generating them. Think of all your ideas as possibilities and generate as many as you can before you decide which ones to select. The world is not black or white. It is grey. Never stop with your first good idea. Always strive to find a better one and continue until you have one that is still better. Trust your instincts. One professor said Einstein was “the laziest dog” the university ever had. Beethoven’s parents were told he was too stupid to be a music composer. Walt Disney was fired from his first job on a newspaper because “he lacked imagination.” Whenever you try to do something and do not succeed, you do not fail. You have learned something that does not work. Interpret your own experiences. All experiences are neutral. They have no meaning. You give them meaning by the way you choose to interpret them. If you are a priest, you see evidence of God everywhere. If you are an atheist, you see the absence of God everywhere. Always approach a problem on its own terms. Do not trust your first perspective of a problem as it will be too biased toward your usual way of thinking. Always look at your problem from multiple perspectives. Always remember that genius is finding a perspective no one else has taken. Look for different ways to look at the problem. Take another role, for example, how would someone else see it, how would Jay Leno, Pablo Picasso, George Patton see it? Take a walk and look for things that metaphorically represent the problem and force connections between those things and the problem. Ask your friends and strangers how they see the problem. Ask a child. How would a ten year old solve it? Ask a grandparent. Imagine you are the problem. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. Creative geniuses are inclusive thinkers which mean they look for ways to include everything, including things that are dissimilar and totally unrelated. Albert Einstein once famously remarked “Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited to all we now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world, and all there ever will be to know and understand.” To create, a person must have knowledge but forget the knowledge, must see unexpected connections in things but not have a mental disorder, must work hard but spend time doing nothing as information incubates, must create many ideas yet most of them are useless, must look at the same thing as everyone else, yet see something different, must desire success but embrace failure, must be persistent but not stubborn, and must listen to experts but know how to disregard them.” Full article here by Michael Michalko on Wake Up World.

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It also is very interesting how it explains that if you go to experts for advice they most probably will be negative. Why? because they think they are the best at things, and they believe that the best is already out there. New ideas, are very new, to experts and to non experts, and it is very hard for anyone to visualize something that is completely new on earth as much as you; “the creative behind it can visualize it”. Therefore, always keep in mind that taking advice from experts is always a good thing, but trusting their inputs, no matter what, should not be stronger or more powerful than your instincts.

When you do fail, or when a mistake occurs, giving up is a choice, but wanting to find a solution is persistence to go over the mistake looking for a solution. Finding the solutions is your first step to a complete success. Michael Michalko sets a beautiful example in his article: “Once Thomas Edison was approached by an assistant while working on the filament for the light bulb. The assistant asked Edison why he didn’t give up. “After all,” he said, “you have failed 5000 times.” Edison looked at him and told him that he didn’t understand what the assistant meant by failure, because, Edison said, “I have discovered 5000 things that don’t work.” You construct your own reality by how you choose to interpret your experiences.”

So don’t give up, failing is only the beginning, it truly is. You have to measure what you believe in and how much you believe in it. There is a difference between trying to prove something and trying to create something. Trying to prove something is shallow and uncreative, trying to create something, stems from your inner creator. Trust your inner creator, trust that we are all connected to the Divine creator. Trust that through our believe we will be able to flourish our goals, but don’t expect to get there the first, the second or the third time, and if you did, don’t just think there is nothing better coming after or only better should come after. We create 100 things and between the 100 only 1 might be the one right thing.

What is Destiny? And how different is it from your Fate?

“Destiny doesn’t mean that your life has been strictly predetermined. Therefore, to leave everything to fate and to not actively contribute to the music of the universe is a sign of sheer ignorance. The music of the universe is all-pervading and it is composed on forty different levels. Your destiny is the level where you will play your tune. You might not change your instrument but how well to play is entirely in your hands.” Another great one by The Sufi mystic & Islamic scholar Jalal ad-Din Rumi – Rule#29 from the book 40 Rules of love by Elif Shafak – Read more below.

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Two years ago, the following question occurred to me:

What is the difference between Destiny and Fate?

Why does everyone keep saying, this is your destiny, or this is just fate? what is the difference anyway? And if things are meant to be then what are we fighting for?

I kept searching for answers, asking people I love, people I felt are wise, people who I was interested to hear their input. I started to evaluate life, incidents, accidents, and concluding. After few month of living the question, answers starting coming to me. How? Serendipity filled my life. Coincidence, luck or call it Destiny or Fate started to take place. Things that were a little bit fortunate or unfortunate but at that specific time it all seemed to have a language of its own. Bumping into loved ones, bumping into long time acquaintance, getting into the most unimaginable accidents, and even meeting new people who end up changing my life.

Yes, all of the above happened to me within literally less than a month, I felt I can predict reasons, but then with time, it showed me different reasons, and so I realized that reasons either change according to time or they are simply always unpredictable even when they are predictable.

So i came down to the following conclusion: Fate; is what you have no control over; your parents, your siblings, your class mates, your kids, acquaintances, accidents, gifts, location etc… Destiny; is how you deal with them, where you take your relationship to, how you establish or sustain, how you act; positive or negative, how you feel; lucky or unlucky.

And Like Rumi puts it in the above quote: Fate is your instrument, it can not be changed for it is given to you, but how you play this instrument is your destiny, your choice, to use it or not to use it, to become a musician or to just frame it for display. To make beautiful memorable piece, or to make noisy and harsh piece. Your fate is what you have no choice over, your destiny is how you decide to act upon it.

If you change your mind you can change your world…

Dream World is right here where you are, if you only look at it without looking at the future. The Quote “if you change your mind you can change your world” is true, not only true but accurate. If you feel unhappy then it is time to reflect, time for space, time for observing our pattern of thoughts. What is leading to unsatisfied feelings? Pattern of thoughts that need to be rearranged, looked at from different angles. Trust the power within to transform your own life.

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What about Mystery ?

Mystery lies in one hundred & one places. On Earth & outside of earth. In our conscious & outside of our conscious. We search for the meaning of happiness for eternal happiness not aware that it resides inside of us & not outside. Image is what we attach ourselves to & what we search for, image is what we create & what we form. Search must be made inside & not outside. Have a blessed Tuesday.

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Morning Motivation: From the book The Artist’s Way

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“In filling the well, think magic. Think delight. Think fun. Do not think duty. Do not do what you should do- spiritual sit-ups like reading a dull but recommended critical text. Do what intrigues you, explore what interests you; think mystery, not mastery.

Some sounds lull us. Some stimulate us. Ten minutes of listening to a great piece of music can be a very effective meditation. Five minutes of barefoot dancing to drum music can send our artist into its play-fray-day refreshed.” From the book The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron.

I will be taking you with me on my journey with the book to explore creativity, for those of you who wish to explore their creative side, join me every morning for little exercises recommended by Julia Cameron. You can always buy the book from Amazon.

If you liked this post you might as well enjoy reading: Holding On, Camel Romance, Motive of the day

How to keep going when having a bad day…

Yoga in Bali is worth it peace and love and kindness

It is Okay – Remember where ever you are, what ever it is, it is going to be okay. We sometimes need to stumble upon a stone and trip to remember how we are, who we are & how we act when things are difficult. No matter what, how long or how difficult it is, always remember that it is going to end up being okay. Just breath, and believe & try to be aware of your senses. Keep calm, keep going & keep a hopeful thought, miracles do happen.

“I have always believed that when a man gets it in his head to do something and when he exclusively occupies himself in that design, he must succeed”…

“I have always believed that when a man gets it in his head to do something and when he exclusively occupies himself in that design, he must succeed. Whatever the difficulties. That man can become grand vizier or pope or Casanova.” A quote I have picked up few months ago while I was changing paths… And I still feel wowed every time I read it… It’s like magic but it’s not… I mean we really can be the next big thing but it can’t be what we want to be… we can really want to do something for an obvious reason and give it our all till its done and if one thing is a great thing then you will be the next big thing.
When we are cooking, we usually know what we want as a result on our plate, so while we are in the making we know what we are forming and creating… The ingredients are essential here, some can not be altered at the end and some can be somewhat added or replaced… Therefore the ingredients are essential and the person making the meal with passion & love is also another essential… One good meal is not so easy to be done looking, tasting & smelling phenomenal. The cook must be really aware and good at what he is doing to accomplish an unforgettable dish… Therefore how much do you believe in what you are creating, making or forming? How useful will it be? Do you feel the audience before they arrive? If yes then just keep going until you’re the next #Gaudi in your own way…

Coming up on my blog will be lots and lots of beautiful pictures and morning diaries covering the beautiful city of Barcelona.

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